Athena's Story of Survival
What Makes You a Beautiful Disaster?
Survival. When I think of what makes me a Beautiful Disaster, it’s survival. In 2016, my marriage fell apart due to major insecurities and trust issues on *his* end. After years of fighting to be seen, heard, and valued, I have been in survival mode. I have hit rock bottom and am slowly but surely climbing my way back up. I am still a daily work in progress, and my biggest supporter is myself. After all the hurt and betrayal I’ve been through, the only person I have to depend on is me.
Why Do You Identify with the Beautiful Disaster Brand?
Women of survival. Women who overcome trials and tribulations. Women who refuse to give up, no matter how hard life is or has been for them. That is why I identify with the brand.
Tell Us Your Beautiful Disaster Story
In 2016, I ended my marriage—not because I wanted to, but because it had become toxic. My ex had severe insecurities and trust issues. There was verbal, emotional, and financial abuse. Although he never raised a hand to me or our children, the lies and constant fighting were too much. The environment was not a good one for children. He even lied about therapy.
I grew up in a semi-toxic household, a very poor household. I did not want any of that for my kids, so I made the hardest decision and ended the marriage.
I have spent the last eight years scraping and clawing my way back from the depths of depression. I still suffer from PTSD and relationship anxiety. I have yet to find a partner deserving of a strong, independent woman like myself. I am a constant work in progress, and my journey is far from over.
What Happened for You to Turn It Around?
Honestly, I have not reached that turning point in my journey yet. I have goals and dreams that I am slowly and steadily working towards while being the super busy, awesome woman that I am. Continuing to read and follow the BD family stories motivates me to be my best self.
Name 3 Things You’ve Done to Move Closer to Happiness:
1. Let go of the past.
2. Forgive those who have wronged you, but NEVER forget.
3. ALWAYS, no matter what, tell the TRUTH.
What Is Your Favorite Beautiful Disaster Collection, Past or Present, and Why?
**BFD**—because “F@#$” is one of my favorite words... and I know I’m a Beautiful FUCKING Disaster!